from an injury, but most especially a brain injury which affects both our minds and
bodies, we generally try to get back to life as it was before the injury. We work on
regaining lost skills, perhaps on returning to work, and on nurturing interpersonal
relationships which have been impacted by the accident. Lost in the very serious business
of recovery, the idea of fun, of pleasure, of recreation, can be so remote as to be
A look at the literature, at
books, magazines and on the Internet, shows that recreation and enjoyment are not
considered major aspects of the recovery process. What a gigantic oversight! How can
anyone make progress without some pleasure in their day? The human spirit is resilient,
but we all need fun in our lives.
"OPEN THE DOOR TO FUN"
People find they
can laugh under the most trying circumstances. Sometimes it is humor that gets us through
very difficult times. It's good to look at what was fun before you had a brain injury. If
you don't remember, ask your family and friends. Then consider if those activities sound
appealing to you now and if so, are you now able to do them. If the answer is no to either
of those questions, then it's time to find something new to do that will bring some
pleasure to your days.
Sometimes it's the smallest things
that can make us happy or bring a moment of joy: music, spring leaves on a tree, flowers,
birds singing, seeing someone else mess up, making our own silly mistakes, seeing a child
jump in a puddle, winning a game of checkers. What does it for you?
This Fall 2000 issue of NeuroNewS
presents some glimpses into what some of us do for fun. Read on!
Revised: Saturday, February 23, 2002 08:42 AM